What is true 'Happiness'?!

Happiness is such a thing that we are all looking for today. Who does not want to be happy or does not want a beautiful life? But the question is, what does it mean to say a beautiful life?
There are some people who hate their life! They are always depressed and depressed. On the other hand, there are some people who enjoy their life, they are always happy and happy. But why is this? And what is the reason for happiness?
Many of us know that beautiful life in the Hereafter can be found in Paradise. But what will happen to this worldly life? Let us know, who gave us the life of this world,
What is the Almighty Allah (peace be upon him) saying about a beautiful life?
Whoever does righteousness, whether male or female, while he is a believer - We will surely cause him to live a good life, and we will surely give them their reward [in the Hereafter] according to the best of what they used to do...?” [Surah Nahl 97]
Everything we do in this life, maybe everything will prove to be a proof for you or there will be a documentary evidence against you. Every different moments, seconds, minutes, months, which we are passing away, which is going away from our lives, may make us closer to Allah, or vice versa, because of his displeasure, you will go  to hell.
When a person wakes up in the morning, does he not see? Before long, his body was frozen, sleeping! If someone calls to him, he cannot hear, maybe someone was sitting in front of him, he could not see, he did not even know what he thought about sleeping all night.
Who is the entity that awakened him again! Turned away the sight, who gave back hearing power, or the spirit? Who is the person who gave you good healthy health while many are suffering from various physical problems! Allah blesses us so much that we cannot but love him, Allah feed us, fresh fruits, fresh meat, drinks, food water, sunlight and much more!
We thank God by saying Alhamdulillah.
Allah says in the glorious Quran:
“And if you should count the favors of Allah, you could not enumerate them. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful” (Surah Nahl 18)
See what Allah in a wonderfully says in the Quran:
“It is Allah who created the heavens and the earth and sent down rain from the sky and produced thereby some fruits as provision for you and subjected for you the ships to sail through the sea by His command and subjected for you the rivers.
And He subjected for you the sun and the moon, continuous [in orbit], and subjected for you the night and the day.
And He gave you from all you asked of Him. And if you should count the favor of Allah, you could not enumerate them. Indeed, mankind is [generally] most unjust and ungrateful.” (Surah Ibrahim (32-34))
What does Allah want us to do?
Allah wants us to do the things that are necessary for us and that we are away from some of the things which he has forbidden. If someone thinks that obedience to God or attempts to draw closer to him, his life will become difficult, sadness will come, happiness will go away - these are wrong. Rather, they are misinterpreting the commandments of Allah SW.
Allah says:
“We have not sent down to you the Qur'an that you be distressed.”(Surah Taha 2)
You are running out in search of happiness but you know what,
You can only 'enjoy life' only when you fulfill your obligations. Apart from the obedience of Allah, there is no enlightenment which will make your heart clean, or make it fair (fair). A person may have the way he enjoys the world, but there is no more 'enjoyable' than the obedience of Allah, so you can survive from the forbidden work.
You can only 'enjoy life' when you do what Allah has ordered you to do:  reciting Qur'an, praying, charity, etc. You will enjoy the companionship of the companions who are on the right path (method of work), studying the religion, teaching the people and even for the sake of Allah, they are spending money.
If you say something with your mouth or do any work by your body, wait a little, ask yourself, who gave you this body and life, has allowed you to do your will? Do you have his permission?
Whatever you do, the purpose should be to take you closer to him, not the purpose of getting closer to the mayor, the deputy commissioner, the MP, the President or the Prime Minister. Rather, the goal of all the work is to satisfy the interests of King of Kings. If you do not obey God in all areas of your life, you cannot have a beautiful life anymore. Sometimes you cannot be happy. You will always be skeptical, always suspicious, always be confused, worried and anxious. It will be seen, all your life will be spent on walking behind the gold deer called happiness, but you will not find happiness, life will be miserable. Your situation will be like this, 'I lost everything I had'.
The closer you get to God, the more you can 'enjoy life'.
If you perform one rka'at, fulfills all its ranks and conditions, then the peace and content you get will not be available for anything else. Happiness cannot be bought through all the wealth of the world.
So ask yourself, are you doing the things Allah has ordered you to do? Do you pray to Allah? To follow the prohibition of the halal food, the rules of dress, to work for the establishment of the caliph, to support the jihad, fight against the occupiers, obey the parents, and stay away from the works that are forbidden. Do you follow this?
Or you are doing what you like of these and you are not following which you find difficult?
Let us know, what are the obstacles in the path of attaining the proximity to Allah?
(1)    -Satan:
Stay away from those people or jinn, Satan, among them, avoid them.
They can only make you endangered and frustrated, and to keep away from the truth. Among the people, Satan is among the unbelievers, and their medium of Dawah is that you see every day on television, satellite channels, or whatever 'listening to' on the radio, they are doing exactly what you need to do to conserve some evil friends. You are spending time in your home on radio, TV songs, etc.; basically, the Satans are doing the same thing in your individual time just as a bad friend invites you to do bad things. Bad friends want to remind you of the latest fashion, the so-called star celebrities, their obscenity and the absurdity of the song, the music, where the drug addict 'star' is in anti-drug festival, they may sometimes send you links online, and in the same way they Excited for bad things.
Regrettably! You've got to find happiness.
2. To make an uneven opinion about Allah:
You've got to find happiness. But you cannot find it, because you have many evil thoughts about Allah and many other doubts about Him. When you invite people to Islam, invites Dawah, Salah, and other good charges, some people respond in reply, "... let me stay like me ... I do not want to make my life difficult by accepting them. I want to 'enjoy life’...
Those who are in doubt about Allah and do not thank God for His grace and grace
How can they get a peaceful, happy, beautiful life?
Allah says about them: "They did not understand Allah in truth". (Surah Joomla 67)
Those unbelievers believe that if they start following Islam, then their life will become difficult, they are actually misinterpreting Allah, they are on a wrong viewpoint. Therefore, to overcome these obstacles, you have to do the opposite work.
Stay away from the devil, come to Allah, and follow the Quran and Sunnah.
By accepting Islam, life will not be narrowed, but it will expand.
Islam has not been sent to narrow down human life. It has come to save people from the slavery of many Gods, to lead one to the obedience of God, has come to save you from the trouble, and brought you the search for lost happiness.

Therefore, if we go out of search for happiness, then we have to do it, leaving all the false doctrines and the false statues, start the journey towards Islam .Allah says, "Run towards the forgiveness of your Lord and to the Garden whose boundary is the heavens and the earth, which has been prepared for the righteous." (Surah Al Imran 133)
May Allah Sw guides us towards paradise. Ameen

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Marriage: Dos and Don'ts

The importance of marriage in human life is immense. Marriage makes man responsible. Life brings comfort and tranquility through marriage, men and women are able to stay away from all sorts of wickedness. There is a continuation of human civilization in the world through marriage. In the legal and authorized way, people meet their biological needs only through marriage. In a way, there are great benefits and unavoidable benefits in marriage. It is said in the symbols of Allah that he created wives for you from you, and said, "Allah has made you wives for you." So that you may find peace with them. And he created love and mercy among you. Surely in this, there are signs for those who think.
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, 'You marry more loving and caring woman who gives you children because on the Day of Resurrection I will take pride in the prophets.
Therefore, it is important that marriage is an important religious practice. Therefore, when a person marries, he should get a clear idea of dos and don’ts of marriage.
Duties of marriage:
1- Put the right hand on the head of the wife's head in the house and read Dua: The Messenger of Allah () said, إذا أفاد أحدكم امرأة أو خادما أو دابة فليأخذ بناصيتها وليسم الله عز وجل وليقل اللهم إنى أسألك خيرها وخير ما جبلت عليه وأعوذ بك من شرها وشر ما جبلت عليه 'If any of you benefits from a woman, servant or a carriage (marriage or purchase), then he should take the head of her head and read Bismillah and say, ('O Allah, I pray for welfare of this and its nature from you, and I seek refuge in the evil of this and its nature.'
2- Husband and wife praying two rak'ahs together: Narrated by Abdullah bin Mas'ud, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "When the wife goes to her husband, the husband will stand up." And the wife will stand behind him. Then they will offer two rak'ah prayers together and will say, 'O Allah, bless me with my family and bless me in for the family. Give me sustenance from them, O Allah, and provide for them from Me. O Allah, keep us together as long as you keep us together for the betterment and divide between us when you break apart towards a better way.
 3-Intercourse with the wife: The following Sunnah, during the period of sexual intercourse,           is Sunnah. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, لو أن أحدكم إذا أراد أن يأتي أهله فقال باسم الله اللهم جنبنا الشيطان وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا, فإنه إن يقدر بينهما ولد في ذلك لم يضره شيطان أبدا. 'If any of you say during intimating with wife, باسم الله اللهم جنبنا الشيطان وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا (O Allah, keep us away from Satan and keep away from what we are given.) if he is blessed with a child, Satan will never harm it. '
4-To abstain from prohibited time and place: Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "If anyone has intercourse with his wife when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus, he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad."
5- Ablution or bath before sleeping: After the intercourse bathing or doing ablution is good. Narrated by Ammar bin Yasar, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, 'The angels do not come to three people: the body of the disbeliever, the saffron user, and the unclean body, until he performs ablution.'
6- What is permitted with the wife during menstruation: Yes, the husband has the permission of all other behaviors except for vaginal intercourse with the wife when she menstruates. Everything is valid with the bathing after the wife becomes holy. Because Allah's Messenger (pbuh) said, اصنعوا كل شيء إلا النكاح. '... Everything can be done but not intercourse.
7- Purifying marriage intentions: Both men and women should decide to save themselves from haram by marriage. They will get the reward of charity. Because Allah's Messenger (pbuh) said, 'Your wife has a reward in her vagina. The disciples asked, "O Messenger of Allah, will any one of us satisfy his biological needs, and he will get a reward for it?" He said, 'Do you think that if he met this demand in an unlawful way, then he would not have committed any sin? (Certainly), so when he meets his biological needs by the lawful means, he is well-rewarded. '
8- Do not disclose the secret information of wife: Another act of a married person is not to disclose the secret information of the wife. Allah's Messenger (pbuh) said, “On the Day of Resurrection, the person will be considered the worst person in the sight of Allah, that who gets close to his wife and then he preaches the secret.
9-Feast: Another Sunnah of marriage is the giving of food to the people. The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) inspires this work. 
10- Accepting a wedding invitation: If a person invites a marriage, then he should accept the invitation of Sunnah. The Messenger of Allah () said, إذا دعي أحدكم إلى الوليمة فليأتها. 'When someone is invited to a wedding, he should take part in it.' In another Hadith, he said, ومن لم يجب الدعوة فقد عصى الله ورسوله 'And whoever did not accept the invitation, he would have disobeyed Allah and His Messenger.' But going to a wedding, where unlawful programs happen is not allowed. e.g: music, male female mix gathering and so on.
11- Pray for the newly married couple: For the new couple, the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) used to make Dua for them. Abu Huraira (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Whenever a man got married, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, بارك الله لك, وبارك عليك, وجمع بينكما في خير 'May Allah bless you, bless you and meet you in both good times.'
B. unlawful matters to be avoided on marriage:
1- Wearing ring: Nowadays, the tradition of changing ring like a non-Muslim has entered the Muslim wedding. Shaikh Albani RA. In the book 'Adabuz Yiphf', it says, 'In reality, the disbelievers' reverence is revealed only. Because it is the traditional custom of Christians.
 2- Wasting and showing off: Many people put a lot of debt on their shoulders when they show ruggedness and do waste in marriage. And it is done in a different way. Such as:
 A. The expensive invitation card print for the wedding.
B. Hire the hotel and community center.
C. Buying garment for the wedding only, which is never put on later.
D Dissolve food, waste food, throw away, etc. In fact, for the sake of the honor of the guests, these are mainly for the expression of wealth and nobility.
E. Dancers at the wedding ceremony pour lots of money under the feet but many people are dying without eating.
F. Spend a lot of money on girls behind dresses. To show the man, change the expensive clothes repeatedly to the wedding ceremony.
 Dear brothers and sisters, stop a little from these things. Protect yourself and take account of yourself before God takes account. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, “The two feet of the son of Adam will not move from near his Lord on the Day of Judgement until he is asked about five (matters):- 1) about his life - how he spent it; 2) about his youth - how he took care of it; 3) about his wealth - how he earned it; 4) and where he spent it; 5) and about that which he acted upon from the knowledge that he acquired."

Ultimately, those who make every episode of their life in the form of the Qur'an and Sunnah and refrain from all kinds of prohibited acts, they are expected to be successful and Kamiyab. They will die with great fortune. In sha Allah .